Hey it’s Matt cook here. This is what I look like for real and I want to talk about the reasons and the signs that you may need to reboot your brains, pleasure Center, and this has to do with kind of overuse of the old way or a willy or penis masturbation, primarily nothing wrong with masturbation, but with a lot of high speed porn, it could be overdone- and this is going to tell you whether or not you may have a sexual problem with erectile dysfunction or a premature ejaculation or whatever it may be, caused by over masturbation due to porn. So the first thing that we want to look at is hey. You got a painful, Wang, painful sores too much friction there, overuse Li old, Willie, okay bottom line too much. That might indicate an issue with that. Next thing is edging. What edging is is getting close to climax, but not actually climaxing, and a lot of guys will naturally do this with porn, and you can people go for hours and they go for hours every night or every day, and actually some people think that it’s better to edge than it is to actually climax with Florin, because they think that does less damage or it’s less draining. But the opposite is true. It’s actually, since it prolongs, is kind of state in the brain and actually messes up the pleasure centers of the brain even more than just having a quick wank, and that’s that. So this is a sign if you’re doing a lot of edging. This is a sign that porn can be causing you a problem that could be resulting in a reptile dysfunction. Premature ejaculation or delayed delayed, ejaculation delayed orgasm third thing to look for. Is you don’t feel much in normal intercourse after a while the guys start for a couple reasons? They got the death grip on the willy thing going on and they’ve also got the constant stimulation of porn of hundreds of these hotties that are on screen. After a while, the brains, pleasure, centers no longer respond to normal partner sex and you may not be aware of it. You may still think. Oh, this woman’s beautiful, but things don’t work and they don’t work because they don’t feel much because of desensitization and desensitization really affects normal intercourse a lot of times, because it’s just so kind of not a turn-on to the brain at all. You just may not feel anything. People say, I got a numb, penis I, don’t feel anything I, don’t even want to be here commonly a guy will be with a woman for a while and then he’ll go off to masturbate on his own, because that’s the only thing that gets him going. So this is another sign of edie and all these sexual problems due to overuse of porn- and this is a symptom of it, big symptom of it not feeling much a normal intercourse. One with that, what happens is normally a guy about any man. Past puberty will have frequent erections drink sleep, and so, when you wake up especially from dream sleep, you don’t have an erection, and that’s guys call this morning. Would sometimes nocturnal erections waking erections, but if you are overusing porn and overdoing it, then you may have no morning elections at all or very few or they just aren’t really very hard about lasts, really long, but once you get things back into balance, you’ll have morning erections all the time, it’s just normal and another one. This is not a bad thing on its own necessarily but unusual sexual taste, okay, guys, and so they have developed a foot fetish guys have developed a feeling like oh I, might be gay and frequent thoughts of being gay, even though they don’t really think they are gay people that get into bondage and discipline and all kinds of stuff it, and, and while not saying that that’s a bad thing on its own I, am saying that what happens is when normal stimulation stops being enough and when we escalate what gets us off? This is what causes desensitization. So this is a symptom of that desensitization. Basically, so those are the symptoms of it and the last one is difficulty climaxing with a partner. So sometimes again, it’s sort of part of life not being very interested in partner sex when you’re not able to actually have an orgasm inside of a woman. That means that oftentimes they got delayed delayed ejaculation is one of the words worked, but basically it means that it’s just not it to your brain. It just doesn’t stimulate you anymore again, because the brains used to say that’s much more exciting to the brain, and this is not anything to do with your fault, because, actually what happens? Is the big drug companies and the media have just completely created the conspiracy and it’s not just against men, it’s against women, because it breaks relationships apart. It breaks up couples that are in great relationships, and once you get over this, which you can get over you’ll find that you have this amazing ability to form these connecting relationships with with your women that you never even dreamed possible, and it’s not just about sensitivity and about having great sex again. It’s also about, and maybe more importantly about making this incredible connection with your women and I’ve, been together with my woman for over 25 years, and we have incredible sex for a long period of time very, very frequently. But we don’t have that many orgasms and I’ll get to that later on about how that all works. But the reality is that I, don’t masturbate I, don’t have a need for that anymore. I! Don’t want to do that anymore and instead of doing that, I have a lot of wonderful sex and that’s probably where you want to be, and if you end up there is a tremendous thing, because not only do make this great connection with somebody else, this the deepest connection possible the deepest way romantic love way, but your whole life turns around and you start developing a very masculine Drive. That gets you into doing more things than you’ve ever thought possible, achieving more on your life outside of the realm of the bedroom, but in in the realm of business and achievement and accomplishment, and you find that you can direct your natural drive into just accomplishing more with better focus. A lot of guys have had brain fog and have difficulty focusing on the end of having this laser focus that they develop disability of just doing one thing and just working on it till it’s finished, and not only that. But if you don’t have a partner and you get on down this road, you’re gonna find that women start looking at you like with just you. Just have this magnetism already, and neither why but it’s coming at us there and it’s very powerful, so you’ve got that to look forward to hope. This has been helpful and this is Matt. Cooke, we’ll talk to you soon. You.